In many parts of the world, especially in Africa, traditional gender roles dictate the expectations and behaviors deemed appropriate for men and women. These roles often limit opportunities and reinforce stereotypes, affecting everything from career choices to household responsibilities. However, the community I serve, Goveife Kowu, is a refreshing exception, showcasing a progressive approach that challenges these norms.
Located in the Afadjato South District, Goveife Kowu stands out for its flexible and equitable perspective on gender roles. In my travels through the Upper East, Upper West, Northern, and Southern Regions, I have seen many communities, but my experiences in Goveife Kowu have been particularly eye-opening and reassuring. Here, men and women participate equally in various aspects of community life, from decision-making to daily tasks.
One of the most striking aspects of Goveife Kowu is the shared responsibility in both domestic and public spheres. Men actively engage in child-rearing and household chores, while women participate in economic activities and community leadership. At my first community meeting, I expected a table of male elders, but to my surprise, there were also two female elders. This piqued my curiosity. During my first week, I saw men stirring akple and sweeping the compound—scenes that prompted many questions.
In Goveife Kowu, labor division is based on skills and preferences rather than gender, allowing individuals to contribute according to their strengths and interests. Typically, boys might be expected to play football while girls help with house chores, but here, both genders share household tasks. The enthusiasm with which boys engage in chores is remarkable and something to witness firsthand.
This inclusive dynamic extends to the economic and educational sectors. Women in Goveife Kowu are not confined to traditional roles; they own farmlands, engage in agriculture, and pursue entrepreneurship. Their economic contributions are valued equally to those of men. Both boys and girls are encouraged to pursue their educational aspirations without the constraints of gender-based expectations.
In conversations with the community leader, I was told, “Even in my position, I can cook. A woman should be your partner, not a slave.” He recounted how women were crucial in the historical escape of the Ewe people from the tyrant King Agorkorli, using the spiritual power of menstrual wash to weaken the fortifications of his kingdom. “We don’t joke with our women,” he said.
My experiences in Goveife Kowu have shown me positive masculinity and the importance of spreading this message. Reflecting on my friends from the Volta Region, who are excellent cooks, I realized it all starts at home.
Goveife Kowu’s success in redefining gender roles offers valuable lessons for broader society. By embracing inclusivity, shared responsibility, and economic empowerment, the community sets a positive example. It also highlights that gender equity cannot be achieved without active male engagement. Focusing solely on women can create problems at the family level, but when men understand the benefits of allowing women to thrive, cooperation becomes easier.
As we continue to advocate for gender equality and equity globally, the practices of Goveife Kowu stand as a beacon of progress and inclusivity. Both genders should complement each other without strict limits on contributions. Until next time, this has been voices from the grassroots, reporting from Goveife Kowu.
